I Don't Love Divorce...But I'm Called to Help You Through ItÂ
I used to avoid leaning fully into divorce work because I hate what divorce does to families. But recently, in prayer, God made it so clear to me: Divorcing women need me. And it clicked in a way I can't unsee.Â
My oncologist hates cancer...but she still walked me through it walked me through calm, clarity, and hope-and she was part of my cure!Â
That's what I am doing with divorce. Helping you walk through a hard season without loosing yourself in it.Â
With steadiness. With dignity. With faith. And with a plan. Â
When Divorce Feels Heavy, You Deserve LightnessÂ
Divorce in midlife isn't just paperwork. It's emotional. It's exhausting. It can shake your confidence and your identity.
Some days you're fine...and other days you feel like you can't catch your breath.
But this season isn't here to break you. It's here to rebuild you.
Here, you'll find tools to help you:
Stop spiraling and feel steady again
protect your peace (and your kids)
make decision without fear running the show
move forward with clarity and self-trust
You can do divorce differently. And you don't have to do it alone!
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Doing Divorce Different with Lesa Koski:
Mindset, faith, and clarity for women over 40 navigating divorce â because midlife isnât a crisis, itâs your comeback. Â
Hosted by Lesa Koski,
Hosted by Lesa Koski, family law attorney-turned-mediator and life coach, Doing Divorce Different helps women over 40 move through divorce with more calm, confidence, and self-trust. With decades of experience in family law, mediation, and coaching, Lesa supports women in one of lifeâs hardest seasons â not by rushing them through it, but by helping them make thoughtful, grounded decisions.
Each week, Lesa shares honest conversations and practical tools around mindset, faith, relationships, and emotional resilience â especially for women in the thick of divorce or questioning what comes next. Whether youâre considering divorce, navigating separation, co-parenting, or rebuilding your life after divorce, youâll find clarity, encouragement, and real conversations that remind you youâre not alone.
This is a space for women who want to heal, reduce fear and conflict, and step into midlife with strength and peace â doing divorce, and life, differently.Â
Ready to do Divorce differently?Â
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"Thereâs so much I could say, but what moved me the most was this:
Listening to your conversation filled me with such joy for other women, knowing they now get to experience what Iâve had for years with my dear friend."
 ~ Shaleece Covington
Experience You Can Rely On
Lesa brings a wealth of experience, compassion, and a results-driven approach to every client interaction. Her background includes:
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Over a decade of mediation expertise: Helping families and individuals navigate co-parenting and divorce
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Marriage and Divorce coaching with proven success: Guiding couples to rediscover connection and rebuild trust through actionable strategies. Along with a marriage that has lasted over 3 decades. Â
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Empowering women over 40: Through her Doing Life Different podcast, Lesa shares real stories, practical advice, and inspiration to help women embrace their next chapter with confidence.
Lesaâs approach is rooted in her own life journey. Having faced significant transitions herself, she understands the courage it takes to step into the unknown and create something beautiful from lifeâs challenges. Her mission is to empower others to find clarity, strength, and joy in every chapter of their lives.
Guiding You Toward Your
Best Future
 I help women move through lifeâs hardest transitions with grace, faith, and proven tools that work.Â
Welcome to the Life You Were Made For
Midlife isnât your crisisâitâs your comeback.
Whether you're navigating reinvention, rebuilding after divorce, or redefining who you are, this is your time to rise.
I help women over 40 step into this next chapter with purpose, confidence, and peaceâthrough 1:1 coaching, the Doing Life Different podcast, and faith-centered tools that meet you right where you are.
đ Book your first session todayâand start living your life on purpose.
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Divorce Coaching-Marriage Revival
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
If you're feeling disconnected in your relationship or unsure about the future, youâre not aloneâand you donât have to figure it out alone.
Marriage Revival offers compassionate support whether you want to rebuild your connection or explore a peaceful path forward.
If divorce becomes the decision, Iâll help you choose peace and stay centered on what matters mostâyour childrenâwith tools for healthy, respectful co-parenting.
âš Letâs walk this journey with clarity, grace, and purposeâtogether or apart.
âWe donât want you to just surviveâwe want you to thrive.â
â Dr. Elizabeth OâLeary
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